tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14329405753637331322011-09-27T01:06:42.234+08:00-目送-papafl0werhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03098766551348718095noreply@blogger.comBlogger11100tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1432940575363733132.post-36313658836150954592011-09-21T20:53:00.003+08:002011-09-27T00:08:43.103+08:00<目送><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-g6Lf8Ow3XMU/TnneUTuBKyI/AAAAAAAAAAM/yZPvrz09mFE/s1600/download" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-g6Lf8Ow3XMU/TnneUTuBKyI/AAAAAAAAAAM/yZPvrz09mFE/s1600/download" /></a></div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13; font-size: x-small;"><br /></span><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; color: #274e13; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; line-height: 18px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: whitesmoke; font-family: arial, sans-serif; text-indent: 0px !important;">什么是 《目送》? </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: whitesmoke; font-family: arial, sans-serif; text-indent: 0px !important;">当</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: whitesmoke; font-family: arial, sans-serif; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span class="" style="text-indent: 0px !important;">我</span><span class="" style="text-indent: 0px !important;">看到了这</span><span class="" style="text-indent: 0px !important;">两个</span><span class="" style="text-indent: 0px !important;">字</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: whitesmoke; font-family: arial, sans-serif; text-indent: 0px !important;">时,在我的脑海里想到的是</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: whitesmoke; font-family: arial, sans-serif; text-indent: 0px !important;">关于死亡之类的.在这故事里,作者面对</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: whitesmoke; font-family: arial, sans-serif; text-indent: 0px !important;">同一</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: whitesmoke; font-family: arial, sans-serif; text-indent: 0px !important;">样的情景.</span></span><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; line-height: 18px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: whitesmoke; font-family: arial, sans-serif; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; color: #274e13; font-family: Tahoma, Verdana, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 17px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="font-family: Simsun; line-height: normal; text-indent: 0px !important;">谁? '谁'<span style="line-height: normal; text-indent: 0px !important;">跟<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;">作</span></span></span><span style="font-family: Simsun; line-height: normal; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;">者<span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="line-height: normal; text-indent: 0px !important;">有<span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;">什么<span class="ecxshort_text" id="ecxresult_box" lang="zh-CN" style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;">关系?<br /><span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="line-height: normal; text-indent: 0px !important;">有<span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;">一样<span style="line-height: normal; text-indent: 0px !important;">深深地印在在我脑海里的</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span><br /><div style="font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: whitesmoke; font-family: arial, sans-serif; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="font-family: Simsun; line-height: normal; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="line-height: normal; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="line-height: normal; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="color: #274e13; line-height: normal; text-indent: 0px !important;">事情<span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;">是<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;">作者的<span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;">儿子<span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;">在<span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;">小的时候, 儿子<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;">还是<span class="ecxshort_text" id="ecxresult_box" lang="zh-CN" style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;">会</span><span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;">回<span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;">头<span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;">看</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;">作</span><span style="font-family: Simsun; line-height: normal; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;">者. <span class="ecxshort_text" id="ecxresult_box" lang="zh-CN" style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;">但</span><span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;">是,<span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;">在</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;">作者的<span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;">儿子</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span><br /><div style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: whitesmoke; font-family: arial, sans-serif; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="font-family: Simsun; line-height: normal; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="line-height: normal; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="line-height: normal; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="line-height: normal; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span class="ecxshort_text" id="ecxresult_box" lang="zh-CN" style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="font-family: Simsun; line-height: normal; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span class="ecxshort_text" id="ecxresult_box" lang="zh-CN" style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;">长大后, 连<span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;">回<span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;">头<span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;">看</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;">作</span><span style="font-family: Simsun; line-height: normal; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;">者<span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;">一<span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;">眼也<span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;">没有. <span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;">作者的儿子的行为让作者感到非常<span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;">心痛．</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: 宋体; line-height: normal;">有一个段落深深地印在在我脑海里，那就是：</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, sans-serif; line-height: normal;">出国前，儿子别扭地接受母亲的深情拥抱；<br />上飞机时，连母亲巴望他能回头一瞥，都期待落空。<br />儿子小时候跟母亲拥抱的不一样．<br />小时候时，儿子反而回拥抱的比较</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: 宋体; line-height: normal;">紧和久一点．</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: whitesmoke; font-family: arial, sans-serif; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="font-family: Simsun; line-height: normal; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="line-height: normal; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="line-height: normal; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="line-height: normal; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span class="ecxshort_text" id="ecxresult_box" lang="zh-CN" style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="font-family: Simsun; line-height: normal; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span class="ecxshort_text" id="ecxresult_box" lang="zh-CN" style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"><span style="color: #274e13; line-height: 19px; text-indent: 0px !important;"> </span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></div></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: whitesmoke; font-family: arial, sans-serif;"><span class="">二十一岁以后，似乎</span><span class="">像</span><span class="">孩子</span><span class="">的翅膀</span><span class="">变硬,</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: whitesmoke; font-family: arial, sans-serif;">不需要</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: whitesmoke; font-family: arial, sans-serif;">父母</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: whitesmoke; font-family: arial, sans-serif;"><span class="">再</span><span class="">拥抱他们</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: whitesmoke; font-family: arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px;">了.</span></span><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #274e13;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: whitesmoke; font-family: arial, sans-serif;"><span class="">孩子</span><span class="">拒绝</span><span class="">父母</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: 宋体;">的</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: whitesmoke; font-family: arial, sans-serif;">拥抱,</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: whitesmoke; font-family: arial, sans-serif;"><span class="">他们感到</span><span class="">更加难过,</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: whitesmoke; font-family: arial, sans-serif;"><span class="">因为他们觉得</span><span class="">自己的孩子</span><span class="">不喜欢</span><span class="">他们了.</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: 宋体;">后来父亲生病了，父亲生病时，作者每个周末都会去探望他。<br />有一次，龙应台帮父亲清理排泄物，结果让自己的裙子也沾上了粪便，<br />但是作者依旧赶回台北上班，护士接过父亲的轮椅，<br />他目送着父亲进医院，而父亲也没回头。<br /><br />到最后，父亲去世了。作者感到很伤心</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: 宋体;">，</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: 宋体;">深深地凝视着棺木，<br />棺木缓慢的滑进火葬场的炉门，</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: 宋体;">希望自己能记得这次的目送</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: 宋体;">。<br />儿子用</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, sans-serif;">背影告诉他，-不-必-追- 。</span></span><br /><div style="line-height: 19px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: whitesmoke; font-family: arial, sans-serif;"><span style="font-family: Simsun; line-height: normal;"><span style="line-height: normal;"><span style="line-height: normal;"><span style="line-height: normal;"><span style="line-height: 19px;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; line-height: 19px;"><span style="line-height: 19px;"><span style="line-height: 19px;"><span style="line-height: 19px;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; line-height: 19px;"><span style="line-height: 19px;"><span class="ecxshort_text" id="ecxresult_box" lang="zh-CN" style="line-height: 19px;"><span style="line-height: 19px;"><span style="line-height: 19px;"><span style="line-height: 19px;"><span style="font-family: Simsun; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; line-height: 19px;"><span class="ecxshort_text" id="ecxresult_box" lang="zh-CN" style="line-height: 19px;"><span style="line-height: 19px;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; line-height: 19px;"><span style="color: #274e13; line-height: 19px;"> </span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><br /></span><div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1432940575363733132-3631365883615095459?l=forgetting-everything.blogspot.com' alt='' /></div>papafl0werhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03098766551348718095noreply@blogger.com0